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Hi, Are you interested in the Laws of Attraction? Are you getting frustrated on applying them in your life? Is life becoming a big hole that you can’t get out of? I might be able to help. Through my experiences I have learned the Laws Of Attraction and have applied them to my life. I have manifested great things in my life, from a child,lottery,house,even to what I’m doing with you right now and I’m so happy and grateful for all of it.

Now this process is as easy as the great gurus of or time make it sound to be, it comes down to how easy you want it to be. I went through doubtful times myself. But what got me through all of it was, I always, when in doubt I looked at what I got and what I asked for. In other words if I got something negative in my life, I looked at it or observed it and was able to figure out how or why I got it. Usually when I got the negative stuff it was because I put forth the thoughts and feelings that went with it and therefor could not be mad at myself for it because I knew how the laws of attraction worked.

How to ask for what you want to appear in your life. Some of you may be confused with it or some of you do understand it. The asking part you must understand this, the universe only understands feelings. This is your spirit talking to its higher power and your thoughts are you talking with your spirit. Now with knowing that, you could understand when the guru’s say your thoughts become things. Of course the guru will add that you need the feelings to go with it and I agree. Remember it’s the universe that creates things for you and it’s your spirit or feelings that communicates with the great universe. So when you are looking at that great big mount of dept and feel the feelings of fear,panic,never going to get out, you are asking the universe to bring more of it. You brought the image and the feeling together and now the universe will bring it to you. Next time you look at that mount of dept and have to pay that bill for it, look at it as if you are putting a money deposit into your bank account of life and the account numbers are growing everyday. This is what worked for me. You have to have a happy thought and feeling to change this predicament. Just like in the movie Happy Gilmore.

When You first start off I do recommend from experience to start of small. By starting off small you will bring your confidence up and will be more affective at the bigger things after. Or if you think you can handle it try for big, but I will warn you I tried for big right off the bat and found myself giving up faster than I started. When I started off small the faster I got good at it and the faster I was able to manifest bigger things.

The first thing I did and I do recommend for starting off is to pick something small and you think is easy to do. For example I used birds. Now every time I went to bed I would say ” God” I use God for what is call the universe, you can call it whatever as long as it works for you. For me its God. So back to what I was going to say “God, I’m so happy and grateful for all the birds in my life. They help me feel peace and love. Thank You and good night”. Now after a couple of weeks of doing this every night. I noticed that birds were coming to me from all over. They would come to my bedroom window in the morning and sing a song, they would come and visit me wile I ate my lunches outside. Even got so bad as they would come to me as I was driving in my car. I had to stop being grateful for the birds every night because I was now hitting birds with my car. Of course I did not want to kill the birds but I did gain experience and now know how easy and what kind of emotions to apply to get positive things happening in my life.

You got to remember for most us it is hard to recognize positive emotions because we are all caught up in a very negative society. Where we barley here positive things, it’s always the bad’s of life. So to help you even more today I do recommend to put down that news paper and turn off the news on the T.V. Put on something on that’s going to make you laugh, listen to some peaceful and happy music,read something inspiring and for God’s sakes be happy and grateful for everything in your life because you asked for it.

Thank You and I Wish You Get Everything You Ask For.

Hi , I just recently read a interesting blog called “Give us this day” at http://www.myjustlove.com. Please I recommend you go read it. This blog talks about how humanity started off peaceful. Where two parties that have different opinions or conflicts with each other, could sit down at a table to talk things out and at the end of all of it with no violence get up and shake each others hands and walk away with no regrets.

Than it talks about a baseball team that had a bench clearing brawl with the opposing team and how shocked and disappointed all the parents were with the team because all the work the parents put into teaching their children about fair play, honesty and respect. The blog does also mention about our governments. How they lie and cheat to the people of their nation and pretend that they are making things better but really are making them worst.

Now it does somewhere in there mention about us as the human race will have to pay a price or consequences for our actions. This is true there will be some kind of consequence. As there is always a consequence to every action we do, it comes down to what consequence do we choose from. A positive consequence or a negative one. The choice is yours and you are free to make that choice because life is a game of choices and the experience you want to have will depend on the choice you make at  the opportunity that is present in front of you and a opportunity is always there.

Now for the baseball teams that had the bench brawl. I have this to say to the parents, please look at it as another way of thinking.  Don’t take it so personally. Use what these teams did as an example to your children on what not to do. Children don’t really learn by teaching, but by examples. They need to be shown why, how or just because. They need to see or experience for themselves to learn. That is what true wisdom is about, otherwise they will grow up to be a text book and not know what their true identity is and live on anti-depressants because they are not being true to themselves and who they are. These baseball teams are an example because it shows us the opposite of what we want and that is peace. If you do not understand I’ll explain. If we did not know what fighting is or was and it’s consequences that it holds. How would we know about peace and love? The fact of the matter is we need negativity to produce positivity, we need the opposites for them to exists. The government with lies and cheating. This is an example about what we don’t want, now the opposite truth and happiness or helping. This is what most of us want. You see what I’m talking about here, if there’s something that you want in your life really bad that is positive you have already experienced the negative in one form or the other. Now I’m not saying you actually went out and did the deed yourself but you could of seen it on t.v or heard it by word of mouth, but nevertheless you experienced it and now you want the positive of that situation. If you still don’t understand I have my own example for you. If I didn’t live with little bit of money and had a hard time supporting my family I would not want or even know about being rich or wealthy. You see if you use your negative situations as a contrast to what you do want you are learning, you are gaining wisdom. Once again we are back to the baseball team and the government. If we use our positive mind to think, we would know and use these opportunities as a contrast to what we do truly want and for most of us that is Love and Peace. That would not be there if we did not experience what these teams and governments have produced for us, so thank you to them for showing me what I do truly want.

Overall the message is to not to take life to personally everything that happens in it has a purpose. Have fun and enjoy your life because you can do anything you want. It comes down to the matter of a choice and the experience of negativity or positivity.

Thank You for reading this and wish you and your family many blessings throughout your day.

Thank you, two small simple words yet not said enough. How often do we say Thank You? It doesn’t always have to be directed to someone after they’ve said or done something for you. Thank you, can be said to yourself for just being you, to your car for getting you home safely, for your home to keep you warm and safe, the air that you breathe so you can enjoy life, the freedom to be you, for all the love that surrounds you, for all the money that comes into your life and provides for your family, for the beauty of nature as it is so simple and yet so elegant and the list goes on and on. We tend to forget the small things in life that we should be grateful for and expect so much and give nothing in return. Life is about giving and taking, a simple thank you with the feelings of gratitude will bring you everything you ask for if you are grateful for what you already have.

There are so many things to say Thank you for, I say thank you for everything that has happened in my life because it has brought me to where I am today and it’s made me who I want to be. Life is full of reasons to say thank you, and by saying thank you for everything including the things we tend to take advantage of will bring you more to be thankful for. Every night I write out a list of the things that I am happy and grateful for and it’s helped me appreciate my life, the people in it and the things in it so much more because everyone and everything that comes into my life is a gift. I even say thank you for things that aren’t in my life yet, but I know it’s on its way. Everyday I find new things to be grateful for and when I say Thank you I always try to say it with feelings, so it has meaning and is heartfelt. Sometimes I need to say it a few times to bring the feelings and then it starts the cycle of feeling good about all the other things that are coming into my life.The more I say thank you to others and for the small things the more it seems to spread like a virus and everyone starts to say thank you.

When was the last time you sat down with a piece of paper and pen in hand to write down what you are happy and grateful for? Even if you started with a couple of things for the first little while if you really feel good about those things you will soon see your list will grow, just as you will. I personally like writing my list at the end of the day before going to sleep because it puts me in a great state of mind to fall asleep and it helps me stay focus on the positives of my day. There is so much to life to be grateful for and life will keep bringing more to you and all you have to do is say Thank You!

Thank you for reading and have yourself a good day!

Do you believe that self-help books can help you better your life? Have you ever read a self-help book? So many people think that self-help books are just for certain people, they don’t believe that they could work for them, because there’s doesn’t seem to be anything wrong with their lives even though everything is crumbling around them or their lives just don’t make sense to them anymore. But for some getting a self-help book to get some answers is like admitting that they’ve gone crazy and those book couldn’t possibly hold the answers. For others, they grew up believing that the only book with the answers is the Bible and that all the self-help books are fake or non-logical. I grew up with a mother who couldn’t miss church on Sundays and a father that didn’t believe in the churches ways so, I got confused about the Catholic beliefs and decided at the age of 32 that I would have my own Faith called Free Spirited. How did I come to this solution for myself? Well, it was after a series of personal break downs that I came across the Louise L. Hay books “You can heal your life”, and “The Power is Within you” that what she put in these books made a lot of sense to me and it also helped me through my long journey ahead.

It explained to me some of the negative thoughts I was having and how they were affecting my life. Because it was written in a clear and simple way it was easy for me to understand and see how I was creating my life in such a negative way. It also explained to me the importance of forgiveness and what forgiveness really means, that it’s not about forgiving someone and being best friends it means freeing yourself from the hurt that person has done and letting go. It also explained the power of the mind on what we’ve been brought up to believe that we have the power to change those beliefs and create the life I wanted for myself not what I was told. These books helped clear up and simplify things for me and what kind of life I could create for myself which I wanted to know more about so I started reading , Wayne W. Dyer, Ph.D.,Esther and Jerry Hicks and Sylvia Browne. I was so inspired on how this was changing my thoughts of anger and resentment and helping me see how I was only hurting myself so I decided to try a new approach. I was also surprised on the amount of quotes that they use from the Bible and so many other past messengers, and made sense of them.

Since, I’ve been reading and working with the self-help books I’ve been able to help others see the light at the end of the tunnel and find their way back. I’ve grown to love myself where before I would only say hateful things to myself. It also helped me see and understand people better, I see the potential and good in everyone and believe that everybody is good they just have things happen in their lives that make them choose dangerous paths. It has and continues to help me when I notice that I am having negative or hateful thoughts to change them to positive affirmations and my mood and my surroundings change and the feeling good sensation takes over.

So, before anyone decides that self-help books are not for them or they are no good, they should pick one up and see how the material written will wake their Spirit’s up. There are so many authors to choose and if you are looking for a change any kind of change in your life you should go to Hay House and choose your new path it will bring only good into your life.

What does money mean to me? Well, for me all I see it destruction and termination. The world is split apart over money, families destroyed, humans self-destruct themselves with substances, lives are lost by murders and for what? A piece of paper, stop and think of it money is only a piece of paper or some kind of metal object and people will destroy everything they are to get it, even the very planet we live on. For example, look at the gulf or Mexico the big oil leak, that would not of happened if somebody was not trying to get richer and look at what it is doing to our planet now. We don’t even need oil to live it has already been proven with electricity. Take a look at mining for another example, we take all of the earths minerals out. Now think about it what makes the earth spin, what gives the earth it’s gravitational pull? These minerals in the ground that’s what and if we keep taking all of these minerals out what’s going to happen to the earth?  Well, it will stop spinning and if the earth stops spinning that is it. No more anything and all for a quick buck.

Now these are only two examples of many on how we destroy things for money (that’s an object). I don’t like to be so negative but I can’t sit around anymore and watch our future get destroyed. Life is supposed to be simple, if you watch a tree or a plant grow it starts off as a little seed but as you plant it with a little love and hardly any effort watch that tree or plant grow effortlessly into something magnificent.

We humans also grow like a tree, but we are taught to make our lives complicated and usually money is in the middle of that picture. Most of us are brought up believing in money as a negative thing, we need it to live, to pay the bills, to eat. When did eating become a negative thing? When paying for food was introduced (money). There are a lot of negative things that relates to money but money is not all that bad. If you look at it as a positive , look at it as it’s paying for that tree getting planted or for the dirt that is going into that hole that we made in the earth, or for that hungry person that we are feeding. The truth is you do not need money to live, you choose it to be there. Now you can choose the negative which is you need to pay the bills, to pay the mortgage, pay the taxes etc., or you can choose it as you are feeding the hungry, you are housing the homeless, you are putting clothes on the children’s backs. Something I learned a little while ago is to have money you need to enjoy money and the positive things it can do for you.